In
reading Anger and Tenderness by Adrienne Rich, I felt uncomfortably sympathetic
with the mother who had committed infanticide due to depression. I don't
condone infanticide by any means. Rich's "Of Woman Born" was
published in 1976 and I don't think postpartum depression was considered an
actual illness during that time. Perhaps if the woman had been able to get the
help she so desperately needed, her children would not have been killed. Here
was this woman in serious trouble and because she was expected to do everything
on her own as a mother, she spiraled downward and hit absolute rock bottom. And
yet, she had a group of women sympathizing with her plight. Obviously this
woman was not the only one who had moments of doubt and loathing. She had just
acted upon them.
I feel
like even today postpartum depression is still a big thing. Just doing a search
on "postpartum depression blog" brought up TONS of links to different
mommy blogs that deal with postpartum depression. One really great one is http://www.postpartumprogress.com/.
It is an award-winning site founded in 2004 and helps moms all over deal with
PPD.
According
to a Northwestern Medicine study, 14% of women become depressed after giving
birth. They studied 10,000 women which means that 1400 of them were depressed.
When you think about it that's really a lot. This was a study so the women were
contacted to do this. In my opinion not every woman is going to be assessed for
depression after giving birth. How many women are going around being depressed
and not receiving the help they need? I think a lot of women also won't ask for
help either. I used to be depressed and I know I never really asked for help.
Even though the causes of depression are different, not wanting to seek help
because of the social stigma against depression is the same.
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